Is Chip And Joanna Gaines' Relationship Anywhere Near As Wholesome As Fixer Upper Makes It Out To Be

It's hard to watch Fixer Upper and not be envious of the beautiful homes that Chip and Joanna Gaines renovate and decorate. It's also tough not to be jealous of their seemingly flawless marriage. But some revelations have come out that make fans wonder what the truth is about their relationship. Chip Gaines made mistakes when he and Joanna began dating. And some Waco residents don't love the couple.

Over the years, Chip and Joanna Gaines have talked a lot about their marriage. People always want to know exactly what's going on. They seem to have a really happy family life based on what they share on Fixer Upper and on social media. Is everything between the successful couple as it seems, or is there more to the story?

10 Joanna And Chip Gaines Struggled In Year One Of Marriage

Chip and Joanna Gaines have a high net worth as a result of Fixer Upper, the businesses they have run for several years, and creating Magnolia Network. But back when were newlyweds, it turns out that they had some trouble.

Chip Gaines spoke about their marriage to People in March 2023 and admitted that the couple struggled when they had just gotten married. It sounds like they were very busy and that made things stressful.

Chip said, "In the first months of our marriage, we were always flipping a house. We were working on this little shop. We had babies early in the process. We pretty quickly had to say, 'We're either going to go at each other and blow this thing up, you and I trying to fight each other about every nook and cranny, or we can figure out how to come together as a team,'"

9 Chip And Joanna Gaines Attended Pre-Marital Counseling

In a Super Soul interview with Oprah Winfrey on Discovery Plus, Chip and Joanna Gaines talked about going to pre-marital counseling. It sounds like they wanted to make sure that they were being thoughtful about entering marriage and that they wanted to be open with each other.

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While of course not everyone chooses to go to counseling before the big day, it's always a good idea for a couple to focus on communication. And it sounds like that is what Chip and Joanna did.

8 Chip Gaines Said He And Joanna Will Never Get Divorced

People always think that Chip and Joanna Gaines are going to give interviews and say that nothing is ever wrong in their relationship. They are often honest about how things aren't easy and flawless all the time. But they do seem to have a fairly wholesome marriage. And they definitely don't want to ever get divorced.

Chip explained to Access Hollywood, "One thing that I would say is our superpower is that Jo and I are not quitters. Throwing in the towel is not something honestly that ever even comes to mind."

7 Joanna Gaines Didn't Say "I Love You" To Chip Right Away

In an interview with People, the Fixer Upper couple were super honest about how Chip said that he loved Joanna first. And she thanked him. He was understandably upset and surprised at this, and it took them a little while to get back to a good place in their relationship. The pair explained that they split up for one week.

Thankfully, Joanna and Chip began dating again after that. They knew that they wanted to be together. It's relatable hearing that the beginning of their relationship wasn't a completely smooth ride.

6 The Truth About Joanna Gaines' Engagement Ring

Chip and Joanna Gaines wrote a memoir called "Our Magnolia Story" and shared more about what life was like when they first started dating and got married. According to The Knot, Joanna explained that she never wanted a huge engagement ring as she wouldn't be comfortable with that. She wrote that she and Chip showed the people in their lives a big ring as a joke. Then they admitted that they were kidding around.

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Joanna said that later on, she was given the chance to get a bigger ring, and she chose not to. She wrote, "It wasn't a 'perfect' diamond, but it was perfect for me. I felt bad that Billy wasn't going to make the big sale he was hoping for that day, but I don't ever want to replace that diamond or that ring. To me, my ring is part of our story.

5 Chip Gaines Believes Everyone Can Find Love As He Has With Joanna

According to E! News, Joanna and Chip Gaines were interviewed by Jason Kennedy for the TV show In The Room. Kennedy brought up that their fans are envious of their great relationship. And Chip had a really sweet answer, which does sound pretty wholesome.

Chip said, "I think anybody can have it. You know, at the end of the day I love Jo more than anything in the world and I think that when you start experimenting with this idea that I love something more than I love myself."

4 Joanna Gaines Felt On The First Date That She And Chip Would Get Married

Sometimes people say that they could tell that it was true love on the very first date. And that's exactly what happened to Joanna Gaines.

Chip and Joanna celebrated 20 years of marriage in 2023 and were interviewed for the cover story of People. Joanna shared that while she usually liked people who didn't talk much and Chip was much more extroverted, she could tell that this was it. She said, "Then I heard this voice say, 'This is who you're going to marry.'"

3 Chip Gaines Appreciates Joanna's Positive Influence On Him

Chip talked about marrying Joanna in the couple's interview with Oprah, and according to People, he shared that she completely changed his life. Chip compared himself to a dog running around after its tail. He said that he was "anxious" and Joanna became a positive presence in his life. Chip's words are heartwarming and it sounds like he and Joanna really do have the great marriage that they appear to have.

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Chip said, "And Jo has just kind of grounded me in this place to where it's almost like, when I die or I'm on my deathbed, what I'll say, looking back, is, 'I owe you my life because you settled me down.'"

2 Chip Gaines Makes Sure To Let His Wife Joanna Shine In Business

Since Chip and Joanna Gaines have run a business together since the beginning of their relationship, they must have some wisdom to share about how that has affected their romance. According to People, Chip opened up in a Magnolia Journal issue which was published in the spring of 2020. He said that he realized that Joanna is a "visionary" and has so many great business ideas that he would always cheer her on.

Chip says he has a "supporting role" when it comes to working with his wife. And this is incredibly sweet to hear about. Chip said in Magnolia Journal, "I've accepted my supporting role, a role I'm actually honored to play."

1 Chip Gaines Believes His Marriage To Joanna Is About "Respect"

According to Parade.com, Chip and Joanna appeared at the INBOUND Conference in 2022 and Chip talked about why he and Joanna get along so well. Chip's words were so kind and thoughtful that it's hard not to think that they truly have a good bond.

Chip said, “Our secret ingredient to our marriage and working relationship is a solid mutual respect. We definitely disagree. It’s not perfect. A lot of hard work goes into this, but if you can get to a mutual place of respect, you can change the world.”

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